Can I tell you a little secret? Very few people know about this, so consider yourself privileged. 😉
Our Debt Secret
Only two months into our marriage, we had to sell my husband’s car for TEN THOUSAND DOLLARS less than what he owed on it in order to get out of paying 18% interest on the thing for the rest of our blessed lives.
It was hard to pay for a car month after month that we could no longer enjoy or that we could have used to take us from point A to point B. Fortunately, we paid off the $10k in less than two years time. Of course, back then we didn’t have a house or children, but I was attending school full-time, so it was a bit of a sacrifice to put money towards an empty unfulfilling nothingness nothing.
You’d think I would have learned my lesson from that difficult time in our lives.
Extending Our Credit Beyond Our Means
My third recent mistake as the family finance manager was allowing us to open not one, not two, but three store credit cards to buy things we didn’t need.
I could tell you that at the time, we really, really, really did need the shed, but now that our basement is people-less, we could probably fit all our
crap stuff in there. So, yes, we are in debt for the shed. Big mistake, but at least we aren’t paying interest on it. We have until May 2015 to pay it off before interest kicks in. I’m trying to put as much money toward that store card each month to pay it off before the dreaded interest starts rolling in.
The other two cards were not so much because we didn’t have the cash to pay for what we purchased, but because there were incentives to getting the card. I ended up having to pay a late fee on one of the cards where the balance was a mere $40. The late fee was $25, so it was quite the wake-up call.
Knock on Wood
When I was working at my first full-time job after high school, a coworker told me that as an adult I would go through many periods in my life where I would need to use a credit card. You see, I was telling him that I had a debit card and that I would never get a credit card, knock on wood. Flash forward not even 3 years later, and I got my first credit card for the sole purpose to put our gas purchases on it. Now we use it for more than just gas. Luckily we’ve only had to pay a tiny bit of interest (like less than $1) on it over the last 5 years. We’ve actually received more than $250 just by using it on a regular basis.
What You Probably Buy With Credit
It’s pretty easy to buy most anything with a loan or credit card. It’s not so easy to pay things off or stop before you get into trouble. If you’re like most people, you’ll use credit for:
- A car
- A house
- Miscellaneous items for your house
I view every single one of those things as wants versus needs. The house because you can live in an apartment until you can afford to live in a house. If you want one of those things and you can’t afford it, well that’s just a recipe for disaster if you decide to purchase it with credit anyway. Truthfully, you should try your hardest to save money for all of those purchases to avoid the negative effects of credit as outlined below.
20 Reasons to Avoid Credit Card Debt
- Buyer’s Remorse – Great blog post right HERE from Creative Savings Blog if you want to read a personal story
- More bills
- Interest when you don’t pay it off
- More junk – When I buy a book, for example, that I don’t need, I am really excited for a few days to have it so I read it non-stop. Then I put it on the bookshelf and never pick it up again.
- You start to have the I want more, more, more mindset
- You are paying for the past – Instead of investing in your future, you have to pay for your past mistakes…literally!
- You will start applying for more credit cards – One credit card is not enough anymore. You have to have one for flying rewards, gas rewards, shopping rewards, etc.
- Your credit score might suffer, especially if you end up making late payments
- Your outward appearance becomes much more important to you than what you are feeling inside
- You lose sight of the little things that make life exciting
- You start buying things to fill the void in your life
- If you are married, you may end up having more and more arguments about money
- You will start to use it to pay for needs
- If you have a family, you are creating a difficult situation if you can’t pay for the things you need – THIS post (from The Latina Homemaker) is great to read if you are having trouble paying for utilities
- You’ll get to the point where you no longer have money to pay for anything but your debt, so you’ll need to do a spending freeze to get out of the mess you’ve created
- You might have to rely on others for your needs
- It gets more difficult to pay off and you might just skip paying for a few things here and there until you just don’t pay them. Then the debt collectors will start calling.
- You may end up losing your house and other possessions if you’re not careful
- In the end, you might have to declare bankruptcy
- You are setting a bad example – If you have children, they will learn from your actions instead of what you tell them.
As you can see, one thing leads to another when you start using your credit card for what you really shouldn’t.
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If you’d like to read more about my job as the family finance manager and what I am doing to improve, click on the links below:
You Need a Bill Pay System
My Struggles as the Family Finance “Manager”
Mistake #1 – Quit budgeting
Mistake #2 – Mixed up wants and needs
Mistake #3 – Used credit cards for things we couldn’t afford
Mistake #4 – Overcomplicated our budget
Mistake #5 – Checked over our accounts less often
Mistake #6 – Saved $0
Mistake #7 – Spent bonuses
Mistake #8 – Bought low-quality appliances